We’ve all been there: “Hi honey! How was your day?”
- “Um. I don’t remember.”
Broad, open-ended questions can be hard for kids to get their heads around. With school starting again, it’s time to start fresh and get the conversation going. Often, it’s as easy as simply rephrasing what you’re asking. Instead of “How was your day?” try asking your child something more specific, like, “What was the best part of your day?” or “What did you read in class today?” or “Who did you sit with at lunch today?” as a starting point for more back and forth.
Here are some tips to get your kids to answer questions using more than one word.
- Turn off all distractions. We’ve all seen the zombie stare that happens if a TV or computer is on in the vicinity of a child. Hit the “off” button and engage kids in doing something they enjoy while chatting. Bake cookies, build a fort, go for a walk, play with toys or find a fun, relaxing pastime to take the pressure off. Conversation will come easier this way.
- Make the most of mealtime. Conversing over a meal is a life skill that is, hopefully, established in childhood. Start dinner off by letting everyone share the best part of his or her day, and let the conversation flow.
- Be your own best example. Your children will model their social skills after you, so it’s important to practice what you preach. Initiate conversations with your significant other, or friends and family so your children see you engaged in asking questions as well as listening. Also, help your kids out by sharing some questions they can use to get conversation going. “Why don’t you ask your grandmother what she did today?” for example.
- Use context clues. Kids’ memories are still developing, so it is entirely possible that their “I don’t remember,” holds water. Stay in the know by keeping in regular contact with their teacher, babysitter and other parents so you know the right questions to ask. By asking something like “Who did you swing with during recess today?” you’re likely to get more details than you would by inquiring, “How was recess today?”
- Be aware. If your child isn’t comfortable answering your questions, give him or her some space, but try and find out why those questions cause anxiety or discomfort. Offer options, such as, “Would you like to talk about this later today?” You may have more luck when a better mood sets in, or your child has had a chance to give the topic some thoughts.
July 4th Hours – We will be closed in observance of Independence Day.
Wishing everyone a fun and safe holiday!
It’s our Birthday Month!
July is a very special month to us because 2015 will mark our 5th year of being in business. We are so very thankful for all of our wonderful and loyal clients. Thank you to helping us reach this milestone. To help us celebrate this milestone, we are offering:
- Free shampoos with every paid haircut.
- $3.00 discount for each haircut to anyone who wishes us a Happy Birthday (or anniversary) at checkout.
In July 1776, the Declaration of Independence was approved and signed, and we’ve been celebrating July 4 and America ever since! While fireworks and backyard barbecues may be the first thing that spring to mind when you consider the national holiday, there’s a lot more to it.
Here are some fun facts you may know about July 4.
- John Hancock was the first person to sign the Declaration of Independence. Because of that, his name later became synonymous for the word signature. “I need your John Hancock.”
- 26 copies of the Declaration of Independence exist.
- The White House held the first event celebrating the Fourth of July in 1801.
- The date wasn’t actually declared a national holiday until 1941.
- If Benjamin Franklin had his way, the turkey would have become our national animal. He was outvoted, and the bald eagle won.
- Americans are expected to eat 150 million hot dogs over the July 4th holiday alone, according to the National Sausage and Hot Dog Council (NHDSC). They’ll eat 7 billion hot dogs between Memorial Day and Labor Day.
- President Barack Obama’s daughter, Malia, was born on July 4.
- More than 14,000 fireworks displays will light up the skies on the Fourth of July, according to the The American Pyrotechnics Association.
Looking for some fun Fourth of July activities? Read on!
- PBS has great coloring pages you can download, just click here.
- Martha Stewart has tempting barbecue, salads and sides recipes, just click here.
- The Crafty Crow is packed with red, white and blue craft ideas, just click here.
- Need some kid-tainment ideas? Better Homes and Gardens has a bevvy of contests and games to try out, just click here.
Summer is here, and that means parks, pools and all the play you can muster! With so much time spent outdoors, you might want to have a few hair solutions handy, in case of a bad hair day. Here are some tips for stocking your summer toolkit.
- Accessorize. If you’re running the kids from soccer to swimming to piano to gymnastics and everything in between, you might want to pack a couple of hair styling helpers so you don’t have to intervene between each session. Our favorites: a baseball had and/or a fabric headband. Both look adorable in a pinch—a little accessory goes a long way.
- Ward off the green. If your children have light-colored hair, you know all too well the damage a little chlorine can do on their darling strands. First and foremost, wet their hair before they jump in the pool. That way, the hair strands will absorb less chlorine. Next, wash their hair with some kind of clarifying shampoo (talk to your stylist about what’s best for your family). Green looks great on Halloween, but the rest of the year? Not so much.
- Protect your hair (and scalp). You hear about sun damage to skin all of the time, but did you know UVA and UVB rays also damage hair? Sun damage leaves behind dry, brittle wisps, making hair feel almost as though its been bleached. Carry along a ball cap, sun hat and/or umbrella, and try to stay in the shade when possible. If you are in the sun, remember to put sunscreen on the scalp, it burns, too! Also, make regular appointments for trims, so your stylist can help you go out with the old and in with the new.
- Go short and simple. Crewcuts for boys, bobs for girls, what could be easier? An adorable new, low-maintenance cut ensures a happier, easier summer. Not ready for a big change? Grow the hair out enough that it can be swept into a quick ponytail, and keep it out of the face.
- Help them be tangle-free. Hair tangles and summer go hand-in-hand. The onus is on parents to be proactive. If your child has long hair, style it before you leave the house. Braids are a surefire way to keep the tangles at bay!
Father’s Day Specials
We have the coolest dads around and want you to know how much you are appreciated. All month long dads can enjoy:
- A Dad Cut – $15.95 (savings of $2.00)
- A Daddy & Me Haircut Special – $30.00 for a Dad Cut and a Kids Cut (savings of $5.90)
No appointment necessary but call a heads are welcome (up to 30 minutes). 210-829-8885
Chlorine Treatments are here!
Summer time swimming can cause chlorine damage to your hair. Come in for a Malibu Chlorine treatment for $10.00. Removes chlorine and conditions hair.
This month, something cool happens: Father’s Day falls on June 21, aka the Summer Solstice, aka the longest day of the year. That means you have extra time to celebrate all fathers, stepfathers, fathers-in-law and father figures in your life!
How will you celebrate? Well that’s up to you. But we’ve got some ideas!
Get crafty. Personalized notepads, coasters, picture frames—it’s all doable! Martha Stewart has some wonderful simple (and not-so-simple) craft ideas to create for the dad in your life. Check out her website to get started.
Kindness counts. Food and gifts are nice, but kind words stick around longer! Do something for your father (or father figure) that lets him know what he means to you. Write it in a card, say it before dinner, or hide nice notes around the house so he’ll find them throughout the day.
Summer of style. We love it when dads bring in their kids and get haircuts together! Stop by for a daddy/daughter father/son cut, and prepare to be pampered. (No, we don’t expect dad to sit in our police car chair. We’ve got grown-up size chairs at the ready!)
Don’t forget dessert. Mustaches are about as “in” as “in” gets right now, and what a great theme for a cake. For a straightforward, fairly simple mustache cake, check out Pampered Chef’s instructions. For a more involved, hidden mustache cake, the website, Cookies, Cupcakes, and Cardio has a great idea, which you can see here.
Hooray! Summer’s here! Happy dance!
And then day two sets in.
Try as we might to fill our days with playdates, classes and camps, we, as parents, inevitably hear those dreaded words: “I’m boooored!”
Fight boredom before it begins by having a few tools at the ready. Here are some ideas for keeping kids entertained this summer.
Start a book club for kids. This is a great way to teach kids that reading can be a fun and even social activity. PBS has some great tips on getting started, check them out here.
Plant a garden or build a terrarium. Playing in the dirt is fun for all ages! Planting a garden teaches kids all about where food comes from and can help initiate important conversations about nutrition. For a quick intro to gardening, check out this article on OrganicGardening.com. Don’t feel like dedicating part of your yard to a garden? Build a terrarium together. All you need is a jar or bottle to get started. Learn more at KidsGardening.org.
It’s never too early to start yoga. Yoga is a rewarding tool for parents and kids. It can help improve focus and invite a sense of harmony. Check out this piece on Parenting.com for some simple moves for all ages.
Host a dress-up party. Whether you prefer pirates, princesses or a combination of the two, your dress-up party will keep the kids entertained for hours. Don’t feel like cleaning up? Pigtails & Crewcuts has a party room, costumes and party planners, we’re happy to do it for you!
Get artsy. It used to be that your imagination was your only limit for coming up with crafts and activities. Now, thanks to the Internet, you have no limit! Check out this Buzzfeed piece on arts and crafts to keep kids busy. It’ll teach you how to create roads out of tape, devise targets out of chalk and sponges and make a river in your own backyard.
Memorial Day Weekend Hours
Remembering and honoring all who have served.
- Saturday – 9 am to 6 pm
- Sunday – Noon to 5pm
- Monday – Closed
Wishing everyone a fun and safe holiday weekend.
We Love Our Moms!
Happy Mother’s Day to all the moms, grandmas, aunties, and mother figures out there! May is your month to celebrate all you do. Come on in all month long and enjoy these specials:
- Mommy Blowout – $19.99 Enjoy a shampoo, blow dry and style.
- Mom Cut – $17.95 Enjoy a Mom Cut for the same price as a Kid’s Cut! Savings $5.00!
- Mommy & Me Haircuts – $32.90 Come on in and enjoy quality time with your little one and save $8.00 on both cuts.
We will be closed on Mother’s Day – May 10th
So our staff can enjoy Mother’s Day with their families, we will be closed on Sunday May 10th. Please come in and see us on Saturday, May 9th for your Mother’s Day haircuts.
Mom. Madre. Maman. Okaasan. Mama. Mãe. We all have our own way of saying it, and for each of us, the word comes with different feelings, and so much meaning!
May 10 is a day to celebrate mom, motherhood, stepmoms, mothers-in-law and all mom-like influences in your life. In honor of Mother’s Day, we’ve pulled together some fun facts about moms—and Mother’s Day—throughout history.
But first, please accept a warm “Happy Mother’s Day” from our family at Pigtails & Crewcuts. We hope you have memorable plans for the day, and share it with friends and family. (Personally, we’re partial to a day at the salon!)
– Mother’s Day was declared a national holiday in 1914 by President Woodrow Wilson
– Today, Mother’s Day is considered the third largest holiday for retailers, behind the winter holiday season and back to school.
– Last year, shoppers who bought gifts online spent an average of $47 on jewelry, $37 on brunch or dinner, $27 on consumer electronics and $25 on flowers.
– According the National Retail Federation, two-thirds of those celebrating Mother’s Day will mom flowers, spending a total of $2.3 billion.
– Carnations are the most popular flower purchased for Mother’s Day.
– People make nearly 122 million phone calls to moms on Mother’s Day in the U.S.
– According to a survey by FTD.com, men with children spend three times less on Mother’s Day than men without children.
– According to Guinness Book of World Records, the title “Most Prolific Mother” goes to Mrs. Vassilyeva, a peasant in Russia who gave birth to 69 children.
– 353,000 babies are born each day around the world, according to UNICEF. Nearly 4 million babies are born in the U.S. every year.
– According to BabyCenter.com, the most popular names for girls born in 2014 were Sophia, Emma, Olivia, Ava and Isabella. The top boy names were Jackson, Aiden, Liam, Lucas and Noah.